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Zhuazhou
Zhuazhou is regarded as one of the most important
customs on a child's first birthday anniversary. As a traditional, long-time
custom in China, Zhuazhou is essentially a test where parents place an
assortment of articles in front of their child to choose from to determine his
or her future inclination and capabilities. The earliest written record of this
custom can be traced back to the Song Dynasty (960-1279).
In the late Qing Dynasty (1644-1911), this custom prevailed in Beijing.
Zhuazhou is not an occasion for grand feasts and elaborate gifts: the hosts do
not even send out invitations. The idea is that relatives will show up
spontaneously to celebrate the child's first birthday. Gifts from relatives on
this day are usually not costly, and do not include such items as golden or
silver jewelry. Instead, dim sum or toys are presented to the child. Seniors
meeting the child for the first time usually offer a coin to be fastened around
the child's neck with thread. This custom is not only applicable to birthdays,
but many other occasions, as well.
The Zhuazhou ceremony usually takes place before the longevity noodle at
lunchtime. A wealthy family will install a table on the bed (or "kang" -- a
heated brick bed used in Northern China) where stamps, classic Confucian,
Buddhist and Taoist books, a Chinese brush pen, ink, paper, an ink stone,
abacus, coins, an accounting book, jewelry, flowers, rouge, food and toys are
placed. If the baby is female, the following items are added: a scoop, spoon
(representing cooking utensils), scissors, ruler (representing sewing items),
thread and a design book (representing embroidery). The practice, however, is
much more simplified in a common family. Usually a bronze tray instead of a
table is placed on the "kang" and a book from old-style private schools, like
the Three-Character Primer, is put on top, including a Chinese brush pen, abacus
and a cake. Scissors, shears and a ruler are added for a girl. The parents then
seat the baby in front of the table or the tray. Without help or guidance from
anyone, the baby is then free to choose anything in front of them. The selected
items he or she chooses are used to foretell the child's interests, career and
inclination in the future.
Selecting the stamp means the child will be an officer in the future; if he
or she chooses the stationery first, the baby will be industrious and endowed
with great literary talents; the abacus suggests a penchant for statistics and
financing. A girl baby who first grabs a sewing item or cooking utensil will be
a good housewife. On the other hand, when the child picks a cake or a toy, he or
she will know how to enjoy the pleasures in life. All in all, parents and
relatives pin high hope on the future of their children, and the custom of
Zhuazhou is a method of expressing their good wishes.
The custom of Zhuazhou reflects how the parents, grandparents and other
relatives will encourage the child, and how they will conduct enlightenment
education. Therefore, even though some parents may not be superstitious, they
will still carry out the custom. This is also why the custom has been passed on
through so many generations and is still practiced to this
day.
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