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Life Etiquette and Shoes
In southern Zhejiang Province, making shang jiao xie (shoes worn while
stepping into the sedan
chair) before getting into the sedan is akin to praying for auspiciousness.
Either the bride or others can make the wedding shoes.
These kinds of shoes are made with red and green cloth and usually with a soft
sole, and are worn by the bride as she steps into the sedan chair. In some
places, relatives who are thought to have good fortune make such shoes, while in
other areas, they are made by the bride and another single girl on the morning of the wedding day.
All about Wedding Shoes
In the Haizhou Region of East China's Jiangsu
Province, wedding shoes are known as xi xie or "happy shoes". Before
liberation (in 1949), when a girl was getting married, she usually wore a pair
of happy shoes, which were made with red cloth or silk and were sometimes
embroidered with flower patterns in the front part. With the increasing
appearance of leather shoes after liberation, the bridal wedding shoes gave way
to the leather ones. The bridegroom's first pair of shoes after marriage should
be made or bought by the bride.
In the Longquan Area of Sheeting Province, there are many regulations on the
bride and bridegroom's wedding shoes. For example: The bride usually wears pink
or orange wedding shoes, which are made by a girl whose parents are still alive
or a grandma who has witnessed three generations. The front uppers are
embroidered with a pair of phoenixes picking peony flowers. Inside the shoes is
a lining of white cloth, on which is embroidered a pair of the Chinese character
"ϲ," meaning happiness.
On the wedding day, the bride wears this pair of shoes
to get on and off the sedan chair, as well as for the following three days.
After that, the shoes will be put away. When the first child she bears reaches
one month old, she wears this pair of shoes to meet guests to show that she is a
first-time mother. The bridegroom's shoes, on the other hand, are made with
black cloth by the same kind of people who make the wedding shoes for the bride,
and can be worn until they are worn out.
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